Kenyan Lady Blasts Women Who Constantly Call And Text Men: "Kwani Amepotea?"

• A Kenyan lady who goes by @Kresentwaruingi on TikTok urged ladies to stop constantly calling and messaging their men
• Kresent claimed that mature men are busy and do not have time to text, call or respond to their women frequently
• The TikToker also said that women who bombard such men with phone calls and texts often end up losing them

A Kenyan lady has blasted women, claiming they lose good men because of poor communication habits.

Kresent's advice to ladies

The lady who goes by @Kresentwaruingi on TikTok shared a video on the social media app, bashing women for constantly looking to talk to their partners.

In the video that has since gone viral, Kresent claimed men over 30 years old are too busy to call and text all the time.

Kresent explained that such men only spoke to their lovers when they had something to say before they went about their business.

"If you are planning to date a man who is 30 years and above ni vitu mingi sana utawacha huku nje...huyo si mwanafunzi unadate huku nje... That man does not have the whole day holding his phone texting you...if they want to communicate they are going to give you a call. Mkiongea mnamalizana until next time," she said.

She blasted women for calling and texting several times whenever their men went silent or failed to pick up their calls.

Kresent urged ladies to understand that silence in these cases meant the men were busy and would get in touch when they were free.

According to TikToker, such mistakes often cost ladies good men.

"Lakini we ni msichana hapo uko na 20 bob umenunua 200 SMS ama mbs unafikiria utashinda hapo the whole day texting him, ama ukimcall once asiporeceive unamcall 12 other times, kwani amepotea?... Is that a child? Anaona missed call yako, he is going to respond to you," she said.

"That is why some of you keep losing quality men. You don't know how to communicate," she concluded.

Mzungu man warns Kenyan women desperately messaging him

Elsewhere, a Mzungu man using the TikTok handle @datingsuccessengine has called out Kenyan and Nigerian women who have been spamming him with comments and messages trying to get white lovers.

According to him, he is not interested in dating them and advised them to stop texting his clients, as that will only attract spammers.

"When you blindly message people off TikTok or Facebook or Instagram, what you are attracting is people that are thinly thought out, they would respond to hey and hello. You are looking for a match that is 12,000 kilometres away, they are looking for someone who can send them money. This is not the way to approach people, I am not going to connect you and I am not going to date you," he said.