Woman, 42, Moves To Dump 32-Year-Old Jobless Lover After Discovering He Still Lives With His Parents

• A woman was shocked to discover her boyfriend was a chain smoker and living with his parents
• The 42-year-old woman said she could not continue with the relationship because the man was jobless with no stable income
• She revealed they went on two dates, but she paid for the first one, which was a turn-off for her

A 42-year-old woman is fed up with her 32-year-old lover revealing she was planning to dump him.

Lady unhappy with lover living with parents

She revealed they had been on two dates and fell in love with the handsome man. But after discovering he was a smoker and living with his parents, she lost interest.

The lady said she was planning to dump the good-looking man because he had refused to quit smoking, a habit she detests.

"First date I paid because he didn’t have a credit or debit card. Turns out he’s an artist who sometimes drives for Uber. This wasn’t a dealbreaker at first but then it comes out that he also lives with his parents and is a smoker in the process of quitting. Second date he paid…with a gift card his mom gave him. He kissed me and is definitely still smoking. I feel bad because he is very sweet, but I’m not taking on a 'project' guy," she shared on Reddit.com.

Reactions from netizens include:

BonkersAmy said:

"Just say you don't feel the chemistry you seek."

Ordinary_Editor5217 said:

"Way too long, and you don’t have any intention of being friends with him. Just say “thank you for a nice time, but I don't think we're compatible. Take care."

Mml613 said:

"After two dates...sounds like he may be love bombing. I would take his intensity with a grain of salt and be more general and short with your response."

Notdoneyetbaby said:

"Yeah, he def has maturity issues. And it's not a good fit for you since you're financially stable and he sounds both unstable and needy. As a guy, I would never go out with a woman on a first date if I couldn't pay for the date. That is the one and only red flag you need. He'll find someone, but it's not you."

Slight_Pineapple9175 said:

"I like what you wrote. I would personally cut out the friendship offer because he is clearly interested in you."

YerBlues69 said:

"Sounds like he’s going to be a stage 5 clinger. Way too intense after just two dates."

Apprehensive-Wash479 said:

"Two dates needs a breakup text?"

Bergy21 said:

"I agree. Don’t ghost but just say it was nice getting to know you but I’m not feeling the romantic chemistry. Wish you the best!"

Women unwilling to date broke men

In a separate story, many Kenyan women admitted that it was challenging for poor men to find genuine love in this country .

This was after comedian Churchill sparked a conversation about love and money in a thought-provoking Facebook post. Churchill's fans gave their opinions, with many acknowledging the unconditional love of a poor man's mother.