Woman Regrets Proposing To Boyfriend After He Took Too Long To Do It: "He Seems Disinterested"

• When a young woman proposed to her boyfriend of two years on New Year's Eve, she looked forward to a wedding this year
• However, she now regrets the decision as the year is coming to an end, and the man has no plans whatsoever for a wedding
• He's never shown excitement about the proposal, and none of his friends or parents even know that he got engaged in January

On New Year's Eve, a woman knelt and proposed to her longstanding boyfriend with a well-chosen engagement ring.

He said yes, which made her look forward to a wedding within the year, but now it is ending, and the man seems in no hurry.

Man didn't show excitement

The frustrated woman went to Reddit to vent, revealing they'd lived together for over two years.

She explained that the two met when she worked as a bartender while her partner was a waiter, but he's now risen to a cook.

"A couple of months after we started dating, he said he really wanted to marry me, and since he has self-esteem issues, I thought it would be a good idea for me to propose," she said.

She bought the rings and proposed to him, but she noticed he wasn't as excited as she had expected.

Yet to inform friends, relatives

Since then, all the man says is that he can't wait to marry her, yet his actions pass a message on the contrary.

When she asked why he hadn't even held a small party to celebrate the engagement, the man told her to set it up.

"I feel like I already did my part and he hasn't done anything," the woman continued.

To complicate the matter even more, the year is almost ending, and he has yet to inform his friends or relatives that he is engaged.

Social media reactions

Real-Cryptographer54:

"My honest opinion would be that he was probably not serious when he said he would marry you, but you took it to heart and assumed he was."

Sundays_child:

"He either isn't a good communicator (which is a whole set of its own issues), or he's not that into the idea and didn't want to say no."

Amazing_Reality2980:

"The fact he hasn't told anyone, not even mom or best friend, says everything. I don't think you're engaged. He doesn't have the heart or balls to tell you that."

Man's girlfriend pregnant despite them abstaining

Elsewhere, a young man's relationship has been rocked by a new development that has left him questioning the loyalty of his long-term girlfriend.

The lovebirds, who started dating at the age of 16, agreed to abstain until marriage, but the girlfriend recently discovered she was pregnant.

According to the confused young man, he is sure the lover did not cheat on him because they live together in his parent's house.