Dating Is Most Expensive Business For Boy Child As Most Women Date For Free Things, Bungoma Man

• A Kenyan man, Fred Wesonga, has alleged that women often make demands from men they barely know days into dating
• He explained that often, the women will ghost the men, only resurfacing when they have new demands
• He also said that men usually continue indulging such women because they don't want to believe that they have been swindled

A man from Bungoma, Fred Wesonga, has claimed that dating women is like a business.

Why women date

He said that women only date to gain free things from men, adding that they often ask for financial help from the first dating day.

Speaking on a local TV station where he is a host, Fred claimed that the demands keep building slowly.

To prove his point, he explained how a lady will meet a man, and by the evening of that first day, she will have made a small demand from him.

"I want us to chat on WhatsApp but I don't have data bundles....(free has been introduced)...you send KSh 200 because you don't to embarrass yourself by sending KSh 50," Fred narrated detailing how such an exchange would happen.

He said that once the bundles have been provided, the lady goes silent until the next day, giving flimsy excuses for why she went quiet.

"Hi was asleep, going to work... good day," Fred added illustrating what the lady would text her victim before going mum once more.

However, Fred claims that the lady will reach out to the poor man later to ask for lunch and then demand cash for her hair, nails and clothes in the subsequent days.

"You've already bought KSh 200 bundles, KSh 500 lunch and they are hustling you for their hair," Fred said.

"Dating with women is like a business. In fact, the, moment you start talking to a lady she has already viewed you as a client to hustle...you've become an ATM," he added.

Additionally, he explained that once a man has sent money to a woman, he keeps sending it because he doesn't want to strike out and hopes the relationship with the lady works out.

"The business of dating is the most expensive business for a boy child...that's called risk investment...ni wash wash," he concluded.

US man laments about Kenyan women asking him for money

Elsewhere, an American tourist took to social media to lament about how African women are always asking him for money.

In a video doing rounds on social media, the African American narrated that he moved back to the US after being constantly made to meet the needs of the women he interacted with during his residency in Africa.