Kenyan Author Advises Men Not To Marry Women Earning More, From Rich Families Than Them

• Author Charles Kadima shared candid advice for men, listing three types of women they should avoid in the quest for a life partner
• Kadima warned against getting involved with women who perceive themselves as holier than thou, describing them as those who see everyone around them as unclean
• According to the author, such women may prioritise religious figures over their husbands, leading to potential relationship challenges

Kenyan author Charles Kadima has shared candid advice for men, listing three types of women they should avoid in the quest for a life partner.

What are the types of women to avoid?

Kadima's first piece of advice warns against getting involved with women who perceive themselves as holier than thou.

He described these individuals as those who see everyone around them as "amadimoni" or unclean.

According to the author, such women may prioritize religious figures over their husbands, leading to potential relationship challenges.

"Those who think they were born with a direct ticket to heaven: she will treat her 'men of God!' like Kings but the husband! The Kesha type," he said.

The second piece of advice touches on financial and educational disparities.

Why women from wealthier families should be avoided

Kadima further cautioned men against pursuing relationships with women who earn more, are more educated, or come from wealthier families.

He humorously suggested that control might only last during the honeymoon, emphasizing the potential challenges in maintaining a harmonious relationship.

Kadima also addressed the issue of alcohol consumption in relationships.

While expressing no disregard for friends who drink, he advised against getting involved with women who frequent clubs and return in the early hours of the morning.

"No disregard to any friends that take alcohol, but a woman that will go to a club and come back 3am to knock at your door should be sent back to her ancestors as quickly as possible," he said.

Kadima encourages staying single

The author recommended swiftly reconsidering such relationships to maintain a healthy and balanced partnership.

As a bonus, Kadima told TUKO.co.ke that he encourages staying single or delaying marriage until finding a partner who values traditional family roles.

He emphasized the importance of a woman who can cook for her family, pray together, and respect her partner as the head of the household.

Kadima stated that if regret ever arises in the relationship, it is not the fault of the partner but rather the person who made the choice.

"Stay single or never marry until you find a woman who can come home and cook her family a nice meal, pray with her family and respect you as head because she wasn't stupid to choose you as her husband: she chose a right man! If she ever regrets meeting you, just know you ain't the problem, she was, because she made the choice," said the author.

"This applies to men too; any man who regrets meeting you is the problem; you were you; but they chose to see their own things!

Author recounts losing everything after working hard

Earlier, TUKO.co.ke reported Kadima opened up about his rollercoaster journey, detailing the highs of success and the devastating lows that followed.

Kadima's story began in 2011 when his dream of pursuing higher education took a hit with the abrupt cancellation of his scholarship just before his end-of-year exams.

Fueled by frustration and anger towards his parents, he turned to modeling to fund his education but faced challenges securing enough gigs.

"As a young man, I took it on my parents. I became furious, and I became angry with everybody, so I left home for Kikuyu, I started modelling, aiming to raise some funds so that I could be in school, but this didn't go well because I couldn't get enough gigs to keep me in school," he recounted.