Lady Advises Women To Introduce Boyfriends To Their Fathers, Brothers Early: "They See Something"

• A Kenyan lady has encouraged women to introduce their boyfriends to their fathers and brothers, noting that men can observe certain aspects in their peers that women may overlook
• The lady conveyed that when men, particularly those genuinely concerned for your well-being, caution you about another man, they are usually accurate
• She added that if your father or brother gives your boyfriend a negative assessment, you may start discovering concealed aspects about him

A Kenyan lady has advised women to make sure their potential partners meet their male relatives early enough before they consider seriously settling down with them.

Why women should introduce baes before dating

The lady using the TikTok handle @hannanoons said that men tend to see through other men, and because they have good interest in their loved ones, they will caution them against bad dudes.

According to her, when men warn women about another man, nine times out of 10, they are normally right.

"Take that dude if you want confirmation. They will give it to you straight. Introduce someone, the man you are dating, to the men in your life; it could be your father or your brother, your male cousins or friends. They will look straight at you and tell you, by the way, don't rush. You know men don't talk much. I assure you that the relationship does not work. You start finding out things about this man that you never knew existed," she said.

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Her sentiments left many women and men agreeing with her while sharing experiences about introducing or being introduced at home.

Here are some of the comments from social media users:

@dannylite said:

"Fisi anajuwa fisi mwingine. These are well-known facts."

@kimotho said:

"Very true. We don't even have to see the guy. Hata story, tukiskia tu we can tell."

@tireito said:

"My cousin once told me huyu date tu lakini usieke kwa roho. A few months later alianza drama nikamwacha."

@BG320 said:

"Experience. Also, sometimes sisi hushangaa what you saw in the man."

@Waithera said:

"I took someone home after a year of dating, and my dad warned me, two years later, kiliniramba vilivyo."

@Prudence Gatwiri said:

"My bro is younger than me, but he asked if I was sure. Two weeks later, everything went south. I respect my brother since."

@Saidah Annointed said:

"I guess their instinct ziko juu when someone is faking; they will even warn you about a girlfriend even if you trust her too much."

@Lucy wangu said:

"I did, and my cousin told me hapa anza kutoka. It didn't last two months."

Should you date lover's friends

In other news, a woman identified as Chioma passionately pleaded with men to heed her advice and avoid dating their partner's friends.

Chioma's plea sent shockwaves through the online realm, evoking a whirlwind of reactions from netizens far and wide.

Netizens had mixed reactions, questioning the validity of Chioma's request, arguing that individual autonomy should reign supreme in matters of love and companionship.