Kenyan Man Says Biggest Mistake Women Make Is Showing Men They Have Money: “Muscle Strength”

• A Kenyan man, @Melaninking001, advised women not to act like they can foot all the household bills since men will take advantage of that
• The man noted that once men notice that they can take care of everything in the house, they relax and let them provide
• Netizens in the comment section wondered what men wanted since they did not want them to not have money

A TikTok content creator, @Melaninking001, has advised married women not to provide fully for their husbands.

Why women should not provide at home

The man termed it the biggest mistake when women take up the responsibilities of a man in a household.

In a viral TikTok video, the man advised women not to show men that they have great financial muscle.

According to the TikTok content creator, men would always slack when women show that they can take care of the bills.

"The biggest mistake you did is showing your husband you can do everything without asking him for money. You can pay rent, you can buy food, you can pay mama fua. Basically you can settle all the bills. Believe you me, he will always tell you he has no money since you have shown your muscle strength that you can do all those things through Christ who strengthens you.”

Netizens react to man's advise

Here is what they had to say:

modan320:

"Unfortunately, he is my employer. I work for him and he pays me. but immediately after payment he starts giving me instructions on how to use the money."

MushemiMaggie48:

"Men want to feel needed... my man enjoys when I ask to use his money."

Mah Don Carlous:

"l do nothing am a house wife but when it comes to my savings tunaweza kosana nirudi home rem ni yeye amekua akinipea...but he respect that though."

Carey 1 blessed:

"I showed my bf and am leaving him slowly without hurting him."

shanmoh:

"I borrow and borrow and borrow."

Linah the Brand:

"I ended up divorced... Amen."

Pastor advises men not to allow women pay major bills

In another story, pastor Daniel Mgogo argued that if a woman pays a major bill in the house, she would announce it to the whole world, and this would definitely embarrass her husband.

The man of God discouraged men from sharing bills with their wives to protect their dignity.

Mgogo said women naturally don't know how to keep secrets, terming it their biggest weakness .